Saturday, October 25, 2003

Love in Marriage

Is it true when they say the one you marry isnt the one you love most... Can love last forever in a marriage? Well, I wouldnt say it's 100% a NO, but most of the time it's true. No matter how much in love you were when you got married, the love will sooner or later fade off. It's really not easy for 2 people to live together and accept each others flaws. Although, if they can, for how long?

Love & marriage are two different things. Can you leave everything behind you and be with the one you love and not care if others object to it? Sometimes there really isnt much to choose. Someone told me once before, when it comes to love, follow your heart not your mind. But does it apply to marriage? When it comes to marriage, should you follow your heart or your head? Does it makes any difference?

Love is blind, love is directionless? It's a feeling so strong that people can be blinded. It's a feeling that lead you do things you might never dare to do. Even sacrifice.

What's marriage? One word explains all, RESPONSIBILITY. It's no more about feeling. Everything done must be rasional. Whatever it is, you must think of the consequences. Not only the husband & wife, but the in-laws, parents... the world at large!

In a marriage, love will die off no matter how loving it was before...

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